Random Sex for a Change

Has your sex life become comfortable to the point of being mundane or boring? Do you need to spice it up before external temptations seem like the only way to get your blood flowing again? Maintaining the thrill, passion and excitement in your relationship requires change to engage your minds and bodies. Even subtle changes can make a regular activity seem extraordinary, spectacular and especially memorable. Change can be bit scary but it is inevitable and absolutely necessary. With a sense of adventure, an open mind and a desire for more fun, you can take control of change and experience loving pleasure in entirely new ways.But, with all the pleasure possibilities available (ranging from simple sensual foreplay to advanced Kama Sutra positions to kinky fetishes), what change do you desire and how do you choose? And, how do you introduce new ideas to a partner that may resist venturing outside your current sexual comfort zone? In fact, for many couples, just the thought of discussing new sex ideas can be intimidating. However, assuming your lover is happy and being content with so-so sex deprives you both. Chances are, random acts of sex could be just what you both need to create win-win sex changes.There are a number of fun ways to introduce random sex into your lovemaking:

Foreplay Games: Most foreplay or sex games are designed to introduce a variety of sensual activities in different sequences. There is usually a game board with foreplay activities performed based on the roll of some dice. And many also come with one or more decks of cards with more detailed pleasuring instructions. Shuffling these erotic game cards randomizes the sequence and type of sensual stimulation you receive or perform. Set aside an adult game night at least once a month — play together to stay together.

Forfeits Foreplay: Although skill is involved, most games and sports events include elements of chance. Any game or sport can be made more thrilling by introducing an intimate wager. Either participating or viewing with your lover, these games can be enhanced when playing for sexual forfeits or rewards. Choose a game or sport you are both interested in and agree on a sexual forfeit or reward system that suites it. Depending on the game, reward activities can be based on winning, a point spread, special objectives or when/if specific events occur. Designing the sexual forfeits together is foreplay too.

Lucky in Love: Create a list of options related to a type of lovemaking activity you would like to experience. Your list could have as few as two ideas and as many as you can think of. When you have a variety of different foreplay or sexplay activities, use a randomizing technique to select one or more to enjoy. With a little imagination, you can use darts, dice, spinners, cards, coins, pool balls, etc. in creative ways to get lucky with the one you love.
By agreeing to play the game and adhere to the rules, even timid lovers will be encouraged to push their boundaries and overcome their sexual inhibitions (to some extent). Even if you stick to less adventurous sensual activities, randomizing your normal routine will create more interest and excitement. You may even discover a new sex sequence that will become your favorite.Some other quickie, random sex idea selection mechanisms include:
Write ideas on slips of paper and pick one from a bowl.
Pick a random scrabble letter and come up with a sex idea starting with it.
Use dirty word cards to make up a sentence describing an intimate idea.
Obtain special dice with different number values or letters to match foreplay ideas.
Use sex position cards to choose an activity to experience.
Flip a coin to choose from two possible types of activities or sex positions.
With a random number, calculate a page number in a sex book (fantasies, letters, Kama Sutra, sex manual, etc.) and perform the activity or position described.
Spin a hard dildo or vibrator in the middle of various toys or accessories – use what it points to.
Use weekly lottery numbers to create a unique foreplay/sexplay sequence.
When you do choose a new sex idea randomly, integrate it with other love play activities you are both comfortable with. You can even use these random techniques yourself to come up with creative new love play activities – keep your sex life fresh and your lover ecstatically satisfied. Changing your sex routine may not always improve things but stirring up the way you make love is bound to add more excitement. Take a chance and enjoy random sex tonight.

Sex Addiction Isn’t A New Disorder, But It Is New To Some

While people are still a bit perplexed over weather or not sex addiction is a real thing, it is slowly but surely becoming more mainstream and accepted, like drug and alcohol addiction.Sex addiction is where a person compulsively engages in sex acts to the detriment of their happiness and health and are unable to stop themselves. It’s a hard thing for some to accept, however. Sex is something natural that we’re supposed to enjoy, how can it be addictive, especially when nothing like a drug is entering the body? Isn’t it just an excuse immoral people use to justify their bad behavior?The truth is, the body doesn’t need alcohol or drugs to get addictive chemicals. The brain creates its own during sex, that’s why it feels good. Some studies suggest that the sex drive we all have is more powerful than a drug addiction. We could fill a library with stories about the foolish things people have done for love and sex, and maybe another two libraries with stories about the plain, normal, things people have done with sex as an ulterior motive.Thousands of common people have stories to tell about how this addiction ruined their lives. People have lost marriages, jobs, their children, and their freedom under its influence. It strains credibility to think that all of these people are simply “horn dogs,” with no control over themselves who truly value sexual gratification over everything.It’s a bit of a double-edged sword that sex addiction really came to the public’s attention through celebrities. While not all claimed addiction was to blame for their indiscretions, many did, and many people breathed a collective “Yeah, right.” It’s the public’s nature to assume the worst of public figures, and many felt, and still feel, that sex addiction is simply an attempt to save face by playing a victim.Things might have stayed that way had it not been for the Internet. In the early 2000s, some experts estimated the number of American adult males addicted to sex to be around 8 percent (three percent for females), and many correlated the rise in sex addiction with the rise of the Internet. If the drug is more available, more will become addicted.While the Internet allows people unfettered access to porn and sex, it also lets sex addicts talk to each other more easily, and to learn more about addiction. That a large amount of people were reporting being addicted to sex was something that could no longer be ignored. That, more than celebrity scandals, has focused the public’s attention on this addiction. It’s affecting more and more people each day, and as we said above, it’s hard to believe that all these people are scapegoating a made-up mental disorder.And let’s be honest, does a person claiming they’re addicted to sex put them in that much better a light when they face the consequences of sexual indiscretion? Being an addict is not without stigma, and sex problems in general are so taboo that commercials selling products to cure them have to speak in euphemisms.

An Adult Bedwetting Message Board – Find Out How Others Are Coping

An adult bedwetting message board and chat line is an easy way for adults coping with enuresis to get helpful ideas from others in the same situation. There are many sites on the Internet that deal specifically with adult bed wetting issues. These sites often have medical doctors who reply to patients’ questions and offer helpful advice. Here adults can read the messages from other males and females and may get the answers they need without having to send any message. An adult bedwetting message board is anonymous, so none of your friends will know about your problem.You can simply do an online search for “Adult Bedwetting Message” and the results will show you many message boards set up for this purpose. Here you will find messages about all kinds of bedwetting issues and read the advice that the doctors and other adults offer. Maybe one or more of the experiences may be identical or similar to your situation. This will not only help you find a solution, but will also give you relief in knowing that there are other adults with bed wetting problems.There are also different products you can use to keep you dry at night, such as disposable bedwetting diapers and liners, but you need to buy the ones that are right for you. For example, adult male bedwetting requires different products than for female bedwetting simply because of the differences in the male and female bodies. An adult bed wetting message board is also a way of finding out about the different products and how most adults feel about using them. When you want to post a message on an adult bedwetting message board, you will probably have to register. However, you can feel secure in knowing that your information will never be made public.The Urology Forum is a good example of an adult bedwetting message board that is monitored by a doctor. Using an adult bed wetting message board should never take the place of consulting with a doctor about your bed wetting problem. Whether it is something that occurred all of a sudden or developed over time, it could be symptomatic of a more serious problem and you need to have the necessary medical tests to get the proper treatment. It could also be a symptom of a condition that is easy to treat and you could be suffering through bed wetting episodes needlessly. Adult male bedwetting is often a source of embarrassment to men and they have a hard time dealing with it. It usually takes a lot for them to speak to a doctor about bedwetting and for these people a message board can be really helpful.An adult bedwetting message board is not just about bedwetting. Here you can find answers to questions about all kinds of bladder and kidney related problems. Adult male bedwetting, painful urination and other topics are open for discussion. The answer you want may be waiting for the click of the mouse when you start using an adult bedwetting message board. You might also be able to help others and reassure them that they are not alone.